Conflict in marriage is not always bad. The existence of conflicts in the marriage will make your relationship healthier. It is proved through a study conducted by several experts from the University of Michigan, United States. The research was led by Ernest Harburg. Harburg and his team made the 192 couples as the object of their research.
Couples were divided into four categories. The first category is a couple who both communicate with anger. The second and third categories are couples in which one party communicates with anger, while the fourth category are couples who restrain anger. Interestingly, a couple who hide their anger have a mortality risk two times greater than the other.
Hamburg also explain the phenomenon. Saving anger apparently can cause mental as well physical risks to married couples. While anger is sometimes it will deal with the stress experienced by each partner. Hamburg was also underlined, the conflict will provoke anger in marriage each spouse. This means that the release of stress. But he cautioned, itutimbul conflict to be resolved. Instead of a stressful event rebound.
So according to him, each partner also needs to learn how to communicate anger, until a positive result for the relationship.
