In an early time of doing the long distance relationship, it's hard to hold on, due to I feel it's so long and there is something missing in this life. But it should be learned about anything in order that anything is okay. Here are lots of things that one must do and lots that one must not do in order to rescue and sustain a long distance relationship.
- Establish an effective communication channel. Most people will think that the telephone is the most convenient mode of communication, but there are other means of communication that help keep in touch and say things you might not say over the phone. Instant messenger, emails, VOIP phone and conventional mails can be very effective if you know how to use them. Each of the channels has its own advantages and disadvantages and therefore you must start to explore each of them.
- Plan to meet each other. There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other at intervals throughout your long distance relationship. If you think you can sustain the relationship on patience and daily chats, it doesn't happen. It's also a sign of commitment if you take the trouble of actually visiting your partner or better, paying them a surprise visit.
- Find a hobby that can be shared together. By finding and sticking to a common hobby, both of you will have something to discuss and work on throughout your long distance relationship. Finding something to do online can be quite interesting.
- Giving a Surprise. Occasionally surprise can be given by sending cards, gifts, letters and flowers when they least expect it. Just put an imagination to use and make sure that our partner will love our efforts to keep him happy.
- Capture and share that interesting moment. We can always capture some interesting moment by exchanging photos, video clips and as well as audio recording. This will keep our partner informed on what has happened in our life despite the physical distance.
